Balance between wanting to get along with others (always a good thing when working in a team) and being so self depreciating that you don’t get what you need or want at the end

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It’s something I am working on this year, and ties in with some work on assertiveness. Finding the balance between assertive and rude, and in the other direction between assertive and doormat. I’m still thinking about that one!

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Balance between wanting to get along with others (always a good thing when working in a team) and being so self depreciating that you don’t get what you need or want at the end

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Balance between wanting to get along with others (always a good thing when working in a team) and being so self depreciating that you don’t get what you need or want at the end

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I’ve always been a helper, though, someone who wants to make things better, help those around me reach their potential, and generally leave things better than I found them

Unlike […] younger equivalents of a shackled Katherine, adult me could continue to push for what I wanted

As a teenager and young adult, I wanted to be a writer [but] it became apparent that I did not have the dedication or talent to become a published author

[Stories] have been told through the generations and because they focus on human emotions and failings they are as relevant today as they were thousands of years ago