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  • I think of NO as the guard of who I am and who I want to be as a person

    I think of NO as the guard of who I am and who I want to be as a person

    Keywords: embodiment , life , mindfulness tips , self care , stress relief

    Saying NO to what is not for you is a first step, so you can say YES to things that are right for you.

    https://fullbodytrust.com/the-power-of-no
  • I’m returning to my dream of owning a coaching business where I can help others every day

    I’m returning to my dream of owning a coaching business where I can help others every day

    Keywords: hilary clark and www hilaryclark com 2014 2020 , abstract fiber art , art , artist , feelings coach , fiber art , joy and ease , joy and ease coach , textured fiber paintings

    I’m still working out my focus. Each day, I’m gaining greater clarity around who I want to work with and how. As that solidifies, I’ll share it here with all of you. For now, I’d like to share my Big Why for owning a business and doing the work I know, deep down, I’m called to do:

    I believe joy and ease are our purpose. These are our birthright, our soul right, the way we embody our spirit life during our human life. Anything we want can be realized when we finally and forever release the “hustle” to embrace, integrate, incorporate, and LIVE from a place of joy and ease.

    https://hilaryclark.com/2020/10/26/change-is-coming
  • We somehow tend to share with a stranger

    We somehow tend to share with a stranger

    Keywords: lifeedition , 2020 changed me , the things we miss in 2020

    The spontaneity and easiness of the humans’ talk — I miss it!

    https://selfvoyager.com/what-do-you-miss-in-2020
  • When you care about what everyone around you has to say about you, you’re miserable and when you stop caring about it all, you’re just lost

    When you care about what everyone around you has to say about you, you’re miserable and when you stop caring about it all, you’re just lost

    Keywords: fuck everything , life , mundane

    You don’t know whether you’re happy or sad or content cuz you’re doing whatever you want but mostly you’re just not saying NO to being anybody’s side dish. You’re just going along with everything to the point of not knowing what you want actually.

    https://bizarrelittlethings.wordpress.com/2020/10/25/this-is-who-i-am-now
  • Bits & Pieces

    Bits & Pieces

    This morning I had an idea of something I wanted to post, but I was in the middle of getting breakfast ready… and now I’ve forgotten what it was. 😐

    Some people think that if it’s important, then it will return sooner or later, but I’m not so sure about that. For members of the community, I strongly recommend using the drafts feature to quickly jot down an idea, and then instead of clicking the blue “Publish” button at top right, to use the “Save draft” link to the left of it — and then it will be saved to the (list of) drafts page (same link as above).

    That way, editors can review and reach out (and encourage) hashing out such “bits & pieces” into full ideas. I think we should use the drafts page as a collaborative whiteboard, sticking potential “post it” stickers there, maybe suggesting edits, making annotations, etc. A good idea is a terrible thing to lose!

  • I want my life to be remembered for some good in a time where we were uncertain in the direction of our future

    I want my life to be remembered for some good in a time where we were uncertain in the direction of our future

    Keywords: marriage , relationship problems , marriage relationship wedding vow husband wife vow conflict personal advice opinion writing writer love hate blog blogger philosophy , relationshipproblems relationshipgoals relationships relationship relationshipadvice relationshipcoach relationshipquotes relationshipissues relationshipexpert relationshiptalk relationship

    I stay sometimes where I am convinced I am not wanted because in the same sense I am convinced that I am needed. I do feel taken advantage of but I wonder what women hasn’t been. Gone or the days of a clear male and female tasks. The desire to be with my son full time and take direct ownership and responsibility of how he turns out is a weight that some have to take on in addition to trying to put food on the table. I think marriage was designed to protect us for sacrificing our working potential in order to provide the necessary building blocks of life to our offspring. I think our children began to take a back burner when the western world started to brainwash us into believing that what you had at home was peanuts and the rest of the world was a deluxe nut mix complete with pistachios. We have barely broken the land and we stopped working together as a family to achieve success. We turned in jobs of hard harbor to office jobs pushing pencils and shredding paper. Where once all the hard work went right back into the family now investing in the career threatens to bankrupt the family as a whole.

    https://rubyohsosweet.com/2020/10/24/for-better-or-worse-2
  • Why do I have to feel like I need to justify myself though?

    Why do I have to feel like I need to justify myself though?

    Keywords: love , save the planet , adoption , adulthood , carbon footprint , childhood , family , life choices , maternal instinct , no kids , parents , relationships

    When I was a kid, I didn’t ask myself such a question because I’ve always thought it was the thing to do, the purpose of every woman, the reason we find a partner and get married… It’s only when I turned 30 that I realised my mum would have been pregnant for the second time by that age. And I didn’t feel like I was going to be ready myself anytime soon. I heard a lot of comments such as “You’re turning 30 now, the clock is ticking!” but deep down I think I already knew it wasn’t for me. I didn’t know for sure until my little sister fell pregnant, almost 3 years ago. She announced it with pictures and I cried when I realised she was telling me she had a bun in the oven. I cried with joy, the news made my sister and her husband so happy.

    https://biggirlbigcity.blog/2020/10/23/do-you-want-kids
  • To Want

    What is the difference between a want and a need? Can they be the same thing or is there always a contrast in making a comparison? Reply and say what you think, if you want…