Tag: perfect

I want to challenge the mindset that failure is not an option

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There is so much stress in the “failure is not an option” mindset. Stress to be perfect. Stress to get it all right. Stress to impress. Stress to be the best. But what if you walk into the store and choose the wrong can of green beans? Do you just keep them or do you go back and exchange them, all the while knowing other shoppers will point and say “oh look he chose the wrong green beans” and call you a failure then launch tomatoes at you. Dramatic! I know! However, that’s been my story a few times. No one threw tomatoes at me but I have chosen the wrong direction in life. Not everything I Thought i heard from God ended up being God. I’ve made some pretty stupid mistakes. Do you keep the wrong green beans just to avoid being labeled that scary word “failure?” My personal opinion is to own the failure and move on.
https://shinehislightdotblog.wordpress.com/2023/10/11/tomato-throwers

2025-12-18
I’ll definitely revisit this later and do some editing and figure out how I want to structure my posts, because my perfectionist brain is screaming at me to have some sense of structure and plot to this project, but honestly right now I am just enjoying ranting to the void about whatever comes into my very overfilled-with-useless-information brain

Keywords: chaos , fuck adulting , personal , rant , scatterbrain

I’m now most likely going to go back to trawling linkedin for translation opportunities because apparently I am not a good person if I am not productive and contributing to capitalism in some way, shape or form. Fucking adulting. What a drag.
https://magichatts.wordpress.com/2022/08/25/i-dont-know-how-to-relax

2024-05-15
I want to be the best

Keywords: on the real , mental health , rest , self-love

I have to value progress over perfection. And taking care of oneself is always progress.
https://swimminglywell.com/?p=517

2024-04-22
I want to give you things to think about and form your own conclusions, which may be entirely different than my own

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So, let’s be clear from the outset my intent is to [present] some things for you to think about. I will not do all the research, I’m not a journalist, I’m not a politician, my grammar and spelling are imperfect, and even my thoughts and opinions are imperfect. However, if I can challenge you to think about what I’ve written than my mission is accomplished.
https://politicsforme.wordpress.com/2022/08/12/my-introduction

2024-04-08
I want to fall in love once again and this time, maybe Forever

Keywords: Life , musings , bloggerlife , Life Lessons , lovestory , Readergram , Women Writers , Writersgram

When I was down with fever, I always thought, “What if I died alone in an apartment?” My soul kept screaming that, “You would die after hearing those magical words, never lose hope.” I want to trust my heart even though it was sedated that night. I want to be someone’s forever in this world full of “Maybe.” Love as magical as it sounds, can be my cause of loneliness. Love as joyful as it sounds, might break my strength. Maybe someday, someone would save my drowning soul. Maybe I get to hear my share of “I love you.” At the end of my story, there will always be a “Maybe.”
https://nidhantrika07.wordpress.com/2022/01/18/maybe-forever

2024-01-17
Rather than honeyed words, I would rather hear the truth

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I often think of the quote “nobody is perfect”, and that is true to all individuals. Even if we have imperfections, we should opt to always try our best and aim for the best version of ourselves. Be humble, kind and admit one’s mistakes and own them. Acknowledgement of one’s mistake shows integrity as a person.
https://adcollantes.wordpress.com/2022/01/10/the-choice-i-want-you

2023-12-21
I wanted to do everything not to pass this on to them

Keywords: childcare

I wanted them to love their own bodies and appreciate all the beauty in others. I’m talking about their bodies not just for what they look like, but for what they can do. I am not telling them that they cannot wear certain clothes even if they are not flattering. Because I’ve read all the stuff that says it’s not what we say as mothers but what we do, I also vowed never to denigrate my body in front of them, not even mics – assaults like mumbling an outfit makes me look fat, or that I “really shouldn’t be eating anything”.
https://childcareblogcom.wordpress.com/2021/11/12/how-to-help-your-kids-love-their-bodies-flippy-floppy-arms-and-all

2023-04-26
I want to be more engaged with people

Keywords: flashback 2021 , just me , anxiety , bed , bingeeatingdisorder , checking in , depression , facebook , fightthestigma , instagram , just me , mental illness , ocd , social media , stigma

I’m not perfect and no matter how hard I try, at some point I will always seem to contradict how I see the world or how I feel about something.
https://brittforaday.com/2021/11/05/the social-medias

2023-04-10
I’m not looking for perfection because I’d ruin it by becoming part of it

Keywords: kingdom , Leadership , vocation

I’m looking for a network that course corrects together as we find our way together without fear and without needing coercion or compulsion to get to where we are going.
https://apastorsstory.wordpress.com/2021/10/29/belonging-to-a-network

2023-03-20
Help me gain more confidence in my work and when presenting my work to others

Keywords: inspiration , learning on the job

I would like to get to a place where I can take criticism without getting defensive and acknowledging that everyone has their own opinions. It is crucial within design to be able to grow from criticism, not every potential employer will like your work, not every client will understand your creative vision but that is ok. If I can work on honing my skills to the best of my ability, learning from criticism and creating work that I am proud of then I hope everything else will follow in time.
https://emilyrosegraphicsblog.wordpress.com/2021/02/12/im-not-good-emough

2021-05-19