Keywords: Catatan harian , believe , christianity , god , pray , struggle
I wanted a good life partner; I wanted my studies to go smoothly and graduate soon. All because I wanted my future to be secure. I tried to secure my future, not placing it in God’s hands. That’s when the focus of my heart changed, no longer seeking God’s will but trying to be the master of my life.
https://kacamataaris.wordpress.com/2023/12/30/discovering-gods-plan-in-the-loss-of-my-dreams
Keywords: failure , fear , fitness , fresh meat , psychology , roller derby , roller skating , skates
Someone please tell me not to quit. I told myself my goal is to finish the program and I don’t want to let myself down.
https://quixiesmindpalace.wordpress.com/2016/11/01/i-want-to-quit
Keywords: Career anxiety , Career transition , Making career decisions , Mental health , Professional identity
I caught up with none other than Naomi Tyrrell… academic-turned-research-consultant, and creator of the Alt-Ac Careers UK Facebook group, who after more than 10 years working full-time in academia (including a 3.5 year Marie-Curie postdoc in Ireland, and a permanent lectureship in the UK between 2010-2016) decided to form an exit strategy.
https://phd-careers.co.uk/2022/01/17/when-leaving-academia-isnt-giving-up-its-actually-finding-yourself
Keywords: life maven , habits , how to , life , success
Sticking to your habits gives you some solid ground to stand on.
https://anindependentmaven.com/2021/11/17/supporting-yourself-through-transitions-change
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I have learned that therapy is a technology not unlike ministry for the secular world. And like that clergyman who found me sleeping on bench in front of the cathedral, I want to help the people he can’t reach. I’m here for people feel judged and afraid to enter into a relationship with a therapist. I’ve never been ‘normal’. I’ve never been perfect. And, I’ve learned to be ok with who I am.
https://dartmouthpsychotherapy.ca/2021/09/22/before-i-was-a-therapist
Keywords: lifestyle
That’s a long time ago, she observes. I nod, but it’s true. That’s the last time I felt undiluted happiness, untouched by doubt, anxiety or fear. Since then, there has always been something to worry about, something to take the edge off something great. Will you try and focus on being happy with your life as it is? Perhaps stop waiting for it to get better? I sigh. Yes. I’ll try.
https://anextroversion.com/2021/09/16/the-pursuit-of-happiness
Keywords: blogs , connection , dating , emotions , feelings , life , lifestyle , love , pain , romance , self awareness , self improvement , trauma , validation , vulnerable
My emotional unavailability is due to me feeling like I have to control how relationships play out. It took me a while to realize that I was seeking validation from the connection more than anything.
https://queenmediacollective.com/2021/08/26/im-emotionally-unavailable-but-i-like-you
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I want to live freely and stress-free. I want to be able to eat whatever I want to eat everyday. Right now, I don’t even know what I want to become in the nearest future. I’ve been out of out school for almost two years now and I’m kinda lost but that’s okay. I believe in the saying that everyone has their own time.
https://freeyourheart7.wordpress.com/2021/05/02/dreams
Keywords: adventure , bicycle touring , cycling , lifestyle , solo travel
I ask “Do I have my keys, my wallet, and ’third item’?” The third item usually depends where I’m headed- if camping, a sleeping bag; if to work, my ID. The logic being is that If I can get somewhere, have a means to identify myself or pay for something, and perhaps one other necessary item, I can probably solve any problem. This usually allows me to simplify my day and calm any worries.
https://chroniclesofamelissa.wordpress.com/2021/04/17/intention-intencion
Keywords: wellness , accomplishments , how do you define your worth , internal narratives , self love , transactional love , upholding expectations , vulnerability
Pulling the trigger to share it publicly denoted courage I never thought I’d find to throw my insecurities, imposter syndrome, & fear of being judged to the wind in order to prioritize my healing.
https://notesbynani.com/how-do-you-characterize-your-worth
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