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In the past, any New Years resolutions I have made have been broken within the first couple of weeks, but this time it will be different.
https://meandmymentalhealth2020.wordpress.com/2020/12/27/a-promise-to-myself
Tag: self
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My goals are not New Years resolutions; they are a promise to myself
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I deserve happiness
Keywords: the buildup , encouragment , mental health , rant , trauma , trigger warning , tw suicide , work
I want to have the tangible proof of my existence post-trauma. I want to be holistically evaluated for my progress between 2016 and now. I want to be unconditionally loved. I want to be listened to and believed and respected. These things take so much time. I am such a tired person. I am constantly planning, advocating for myself, and hoping and praying. I work my ass off.
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Balance between wanting to get along with others (always a good thing when working in a team) and being so self depreciating that you don’t get what you need or want at the end
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It’s something I am working on this year, and ties in with some work on assertiveness. Finding the balance between assertive and rude, and in the other direction between assertive and doormat. I’m still thinking about that one!
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I identified her story as my story
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A year ago I would not ever think my feelings or portrayal of her would ever change. In fact, I went on a limb calling her retreat as being the single most life changing event in self discovery, I had ever experienced. When actually, the discovery was, it wasn’t a discovery after all. It was a desperation of belonging and willingness to believe her words had more power than mine. It was an agenda with a fluffed up version of Christianity that was to fit the needs of idolizing thy self. Honestly, I kept feeling this truth often, and pushing it aside.
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Embracing the fact that it’s reallybloodyokay to have feelings and wants and needs and to be big and bold about them
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Maybe I need a safe space for that to happen. And by safe space, I probably mean a safe relationship. Before you start, I really don’t subscribe to the idea that it’s ‘pathetic’ to want a relationship – they’re what life is all about – so I will continue to aspire to being in a healthy, committed, loving relationship. And not to fix me necessarily, but to allow me that room and safety net to be more. To be me.
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As much as I want to be an objective spectator of myself, I am no saint
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I find it difficult to fit myself into words because I am still in the process of finding myself in the depths of consciousness. I question myself deeply and introspect often to understand what makes me ‘me’.
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I have simply recognized that encouraging myself has a far better shot at getting where I want to be
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Years ago, I had a client who came up with a personal mantra that made me smile. He had spent years telling himself he was ugly. This incredibly insecure and self-deprecating young man decided that, when exercising, he would chant “I am hot, I know it. I’m sexy and I show it.” He chanted the rhyme to me in my office. I loved it then and I love it now.
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I lost the love that built both of us up, but the most important thing is … I lost myself in love
Keywords: philosophy , relationship , letting go , life , loss , love , self love
I lost myself in life. I lost myself along the way when trying to learn how to love, and how to live. I ended up validating my own existence by other’s comments.
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I wish that I didn’t panic
Keywords: encouragement , inspiration , monique d clark , monique danielle , motivation
I’m working on it though. Truly, I’m working on it.
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A great opportunity for me to reflect on what type of nurse I want to be, where I would like to work and what field I want to specialize in
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These are all very important aspects of my career as a nurse and things I have been keeping in mind as I learn new information. Im excited to see what today and the rest of my life brings, I am abundantly great full for everything and everyone in my life. I hope after reading this it may inspire you to do some self reflection and find the things you’re great full for and wonder about where your future may lead you.
https://thebsnwithbangs.wordpress.com/2020/10/30/first-post
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