Tag: want

  • I wish I could use a head blowing up emoji here

    I wish I could use a head blowing up emoji here

    Keywords: blogging , genx , inspiration , desires , dont want , life , lists , middle age , midlife , self development , self improvement , self reflection , want

    In all fairness, and in my own gender’s defense, the men can be, often are, the cause of our drama so…

    https://writerofwordsetc.ca/2022/01/15/want-vs-dont-want
  • I don’t know what I love, who I want to be, or what I want to do

    Keywords: {0}

    I am beginning to realize my freedom. For most of my life, everything I’ve done has been relatively predictable and lined out. Now, I am starting to realize that I can decide who and what I want to be. I feel so much opportunity ahead of me, which brings both fear and excitement.

    https://izinsights.wordpress.com/2021/06/22/example-post-3
  • I want is from “myself” and I expect is from “others”

    Keywords: expectations , love , relationships

    Just take a different approach here to maintain the relationship – for example: We love each other so deeply, there is no doubt – no trust issues and I still wait for his message or call, I still want him to see my all status and respond BUT now by replacing my thought process I just want THIS to happen and I stopped expecting this. Expectation means – other person has to do this else it will hurt us. And Want is mine own – other person is not responsible for this. The time we realize that its not the other person who is hurting us, its us/our feelings which is the cause of all this. Our mind became more relaxed and then we start appreciating whatever little or big things/gestures other person is doing/showing for us. We start value them more than before. Now, its only love, love and only love…

    https://dilkigehrayionse.wordpress.com/2021/06/09/expectations
  • 2021 October Monthly Meeting

    2021 October Monthly Meeting

    We want to meet your unmet wants, needs, whatever — any / all comments are welcome! 😀

  • Girl needs to make money and hit targets

    Girl needs to make money and hit targets

    Keywords: relationship , ghosted , mind

    Dudes will ghost you and you’ll never hear from them again . What is wrong with this gender. Let’s reason , you chase a girl to get them ghost her ? Some sort of witchcraft ? I for one know I don’t deserve to be ghosted , I’m a little quiet during the first days of dating it takes a while for me to be comfortable around new people. It might take months and thats where the problem is . We have a breed of impatient guys not looking for anything in particular and jumping from one place to another like hegoats .

    https://thejedy.wordpress.com/2021/05/10/i-have-been-ghosted-and-im-not-ok-with-it
  • I’m not tied to the outcome or the agenda

    I’m not tied to the outcome or the agenda

    Keywords: cathy noice

    I have found in coaching that reflection on your own thoughts is one of the most powerful tools of coaching. Knowing that someone isn’t trying to sway, influence or manipulate you helps you feel safe and reflect on what you really want. This happens through active listening. If I’m trying to push a rope, I’m wrapped up in my own agenda. When I am actively listening, I am making a safe space for someone to reflect.

    https://workplacenavigator.com/2021/04/23/you-cant-push-a-rope-2
  • The true and most romantic gestures are in everyday life

    The true and most romantic gestures are in everyday life

    Keywords: love is love , matters of the dil

    It is the small unsaid, untold things. It can be a hand squish when you are scared, a lame joke when you are sad, a tight hug when you are defeated, or an all knowing nod when you are confused. In my world, this is romantic.

    https://filterkaaapi.wordpress.com/2021/04/16/confessions-of-an-un-romomantic-person
  • The tug of war between what we want and yet what we do not want is a messed up match because we are no longer sure of who is fighting against whom

    The tug of war between what we want and yet what we do not want is a messed up match because we are no longer sure of who is fighting against whom

    Keywords: feelings , general , solace , attention , blog , closet , digital love , instagram , love , madness , mental health , wordpress

    I do not think there ever has been more confusion and doubting of our own needs and wants becoming like something caught in a spider’s web. We no longer know who we are and what the hell we are doing.

    https://unlabelit.com/2021/01/28/the-naivete-of-wanting-love
  • Loving yourself means respecting and taking care of your own feelings, needs and wants

    Loving yourself means respecting and taking care of your own feelings, needs and wants

    Keywords: {0}

    Growing up, I was raised with the idea that I must put others first before myself. I grew up to be selfless in every aspect because putting myself first felt selfish. So I thought loving myself means giving myself all the love and care that I’ve been giving to others but neglected myself. I walked past one of my favorite dessert stores at the mall a few months ago and it reminded me of the times when my ex and I used to steal each other’s dessert because they were just so good. fun times. I was contemplating if I should get myself one because I think it is really overpriced but I told myself that I should love myself more, so I bought it and felt really happy eating it. I also bought so many clothes and accessories online from the 11/11 sale without thinking about the price because I wanted to love myself more and I felt so happy when I received those goods.

    https://zeeetheworld.wordpress.com/2020/12/18/selflove
  • I want to want things

    Keywords: want , desire , thoughts , levi , engaged

    I do not know if I have always done this or if this has just started in the last ten years or maybe less. Something has shifted as I have become an adult paying rent and living on my own. I am more worried and sleep lighter; always on alert. I used to enjoy things, now those things are fewer and further between. I have always enjoyed the activities of those around me, even if I came to be the one leading them, but I am not quite sure which activities I love and which ones I have learned to enjoy because of my social circles. I don’t really like anime, but I was an anime club president for a year and if you would like to watch one I will absolutely watch it with you (“No, you’re right. It was pretty cool.”) I enjoy going out but not as much as I like a small group on the couch chatting and playing games with changing rules. I used to write and sometimes I would paint. I used to make cosplays and try Harry Potter inspired cupcake recipes. I used to sing and laugh at work. When did I become unhappy? When did I stop wanting to be happy enough that I did the things that made me happy?

    https://nesaspieces.wordpress.com/2021/02/25/what-do-i-want