Tag: abuse

I want my kids to understand someday

Keywords: abuse , May 2022

But I don’t know how to tell you what my mom and my husband have done. And I don’t know how to get away from it. My belief is that if it was correctly labeled or spoken about, I would have been able to get away from it by now. I haven’t gotten away from it. I got away from my dad’s physical abuse–I just had to get away from him at 18 and I just had to avoid him for 20 years. And then he got old and stopped. But my mom and my ex-husband never stopped, and I can’t explain it because I don’t know how. They both look socially normal.
https://caseymariez.wordpress.com/2024/09/05/what-i-mean-by-i-need-help-i-asked-for-help

2025-05-02
I want to understand the abuse and trauma from their point of view and forgive it from my point of view

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I just need one sentence to describe my family. They all need to go to therapy. In between all the showers of love and adoration I received in my childhood, there was a lot of their self-baggage inflicted upon me. It led to years of unintended abuse, trauma and neglect from their part. It started to build my anxiety and depression.
https://bubbersandme.wordpress.com/2022/07/30/hello-world

2024-03-05
I want to encourage anyone who is in a similar situation as me, with an abusive parent, that letting them go isn’t bad; looking after yourself isn’t a betrayal

Keywords: Blog

If you have someone in your life who is constantly, and especially if they are intentionally, tearing you up and dragging you down, then that person is no longer a welcome entity.
https://in-the-stillness.com/2021/12/08/a-goodbye-to-my-father

2023-08-10
I can only be the best that I can be, not what others want me to be

Keywords: life , college , education , hey girl hey , i am trying , justagirl , money , struggle bus

I am saying that they expect me and will force me to do what is ideal in their eyes when it comes to career and life decisions. There have been times where I say just stop doing this to yourself and leave, but it is like an abusive relationship. I have stood my ground and told my parents to just straight up stop because I cannot handle the constant debt on my shoulders even though you say it’s not there.
https://justagirlog.wordpress.com/2021/05/28/money-money-money

2021-10-21
I want to live in the moment and enjoy life

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My anxiety will always be around to just remind me to worry, but anxiety is also silenced much of the time now.
https://outoftheshadows.blog/2020/12/06/living-in-survival-mode

2021-01-30