When I was a kid I thought getting my dream job would be easy, and that I could take time off as and when I pleased and see my friends all the time and travel the world whilst progressing at work and being financially comfortable

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However, I’m learning to ignore these pressures from anyone outside of me, myself, and I because well it is my life. If I do want to travel, I will. If I want to give a stronger stab at freelance writing rather than taking a fulltime higher paid job that I wont enjoy, I will.

https://abislifeinwritingblog.com/2021/05/23/why-is-being-in-my-20s-so-confusing

I am learning to live day by day, picking up the pieces and taking baby steps to create the life that I want for my kids and myself

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It wasn’t until both the devastation and anger passed that I finally began to self-reflect on myself. This caused me to really look at the person I was, who I wanted to become and the life I truly wanted to have. So, my marriage was over. That totally sucked but that doesn’t define me as a person. Yes, I was a stay at home mom and housewife. I loved being able to be so involved with my kids this way, but I knew I could find a way to still be involved while supporting our new life as well. I had never really been alone, and that terrified me. Was this my dream?

https://fearlesslyfindingme.wordpress.com/2021/04/27/picking-up-the-pieces

As I reflect on my time as a student I wonder if instead of working towards my goals, I was really just working on an image I wanted people to see of me

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I’m going to use this space as a way to figure out who I am, who I want to be, and where I want to go. Some of my posts may be about fitness, some about work, maybe even some about relationships. The goal however, as I’m a goal oriented person, is to understand my self a little better in order to become the person I aspire to be.

https://celiadoth.wordpress.com/2020/10/30/purpose