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To be able enjoy the presence of beautiful humans without being scared they will leave me. To enjoy the comfort and attention of humans.
https://jonisroaming.wordpress.com/2026/04/18/looking-inside
Tag: hurt
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I want to be able to attach and detach without fear of hurt anymore
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I want to manage the relationship so I show up as my full and real self, not avoiding pain and trauma but not integrating it into my core self either
Keywords: Therapist Post , Ann Szalda-Petree , Attachment , Client relationship , Therapy
I need to examine the needs I am getting met through the relationship. I like feeling like I am useful and important. I like when clients feel heard, seen, and unique. I also have to be real. I see 30 people a week, and if I’m somehow communicating something less that that, there’s a good chance I’m getting my own needs to be valued met through my therapeutic relationships and that is unsustainable. I think it starts to hurt me in a way, and when I notice that I need to take a step back and reassess. Frankly, when I allow that to continue, it ultimately hurts the client.
https://szaldapetree.com/2023/02/27/attachmentimage source: https://szaldapetree.com/about-szaldapetree-com
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I like having control over many aspects of my life
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I wanted to be in control of my JC and uni years, and so I worked towards that. Sometimes the rationale for control was flawed – to avoid fear and disappointment. I kick people out of my lives faster than they can leave. Controlling the amount of hurt I might potentially feel.
https://astandingpigeon.wordpress.com/2022/08/25/control -
I want a baby so much it hurts
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I feel like something is missing from the very middle of me. I feel empty inside. The longing for a baby gets stronger and stronger every month. But so does the disappointment. When I get my period, my heart drops. I cry. I get moody and emotional. People think it’s just my period making me that way, but it’s so much more. It’s the sound of my hopes and dreams shattering as they hit the floor.
https://mississippideltamom.wordpress.com/2021/07/07/the-struggle-with-infertility -
I want is from “myself” and I expect is from “others”
Keywords: expectations , love , relationships
Just take a different approach here to maintain the relationship – for example: We love each other so deeply, there is no doubt – no trust issues and I still wait for his message or call, I still want him to see my all status and respond BUT now by replacing my thought process I just want THIS to happen and I stopped expecting this. Expectation means – other person has to do this else it will hurt us. And Want is mine own – other person is not responsible for this. The time we realize that its not the other person who is hurting us, its us/our feelings which is the cause of all this. Our mind became more relaxed and then we start appreciating whatever little or big things/gestures other person is doing/showing for us. We start value them more than before. Now, its only love, love and only love…
https://dilkigehrayionse.wordpress.com/2021/06/09/expectations