Keywords: life , adulting , decisionfatigue , makingitallup , norefunds , tellmewhattodo , thissucks , workingmom , wtf
I so desperately want to give back my adulting card.
https://whatnoonetoldme.com/2021/07/20/adulting-no-user-manual-available
Tag: stress
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Can someone just tell me what I need to do here?!?
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I would cry looking at the calendar and seeing there were so many days left
Keywords: motherhood
Mentally i think i was losing it. 1. The stress of not being able to take care of my son the way I want to because I am the size of Texas and had the energy level of a pea. 2. Not being able to keep up with my sons growing energy levels 3. Being closed off from most of society and being stuck at home due to the pandemic 4. Pregnancy hormones. All of this makes a disgusting combination of one hell of a hot mess which was me. except i wasn’t even hot.
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When the rest of my life was falling apart, when I was lonely and afraid, depressed and self-destructive, I had dinner
Keywords: personal growth and spirituality , abraham maslow , creativity , psychology , self-development
A different way of looking at “the used life,” perhaps. As a means of using our capacities to create a firm foundation. As a way of coping with stress, overwhelm, and crisis. We’ve all got to have something—some series of behaviors, rituals, activities, skills—that make life worth living when it doesn’t feel that way. As for me, mine are rooted in the stuff of daily life. I have discovered that, no matter where I am, as long as I am making use of the present—by being creative, by using my body, by engaging my senses to the fullest and fulfilling the single most important responsibility I have to myself—to be alive— the miraculous is always in my backyard. It’s in my neighbors, my friends and loved ones. It’s in the birds and the butterflies. And, of course, it’s always in my kitchen. It’s dinner, friends. It’s dinner.
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I want to find a way to stop running all these subroutines and just let the processor sit idle
Keywords: fitness
I am definitely not as good at that as just sleeping. My “vacation” is full of to do’s, curriculum review and marking. I’m going to have to work on actively forbidding myself to do things on particular days or maybe just going at a pace that doesn’t feel pushed like it does when I am not trying to rest. Wow, even that phrase, “trying to rest” reads like an oxymoron.
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Painting what I want when I want and trying to have some fun
Keywords: art goals , artist , artist goals , current goals , goals as an artist , the pop art girl
I spent a very long time – years – trying to figure out marketing and promoting my art and I became completely burned out. Instead of trying to find a “happy medium” I decided to go the complete opposite route and settle on not trying to sell anything.
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I work my ass off every day to get a little closer to where I want to be
Keywords: the buildup , encouragment , mental health , rant , trauma , trigger warning , tw suicide , work
I don’t need validation to continue this journey, but it would be so nice. It would just be the sweetest thing to hear from someone else. I scream it at myself every day. I say, “Rudy, you’re doing so much better. You can pretend it’s a secret and get through this. You’re good enough.” I, however, am not a reliable source of emotional information to myself yet. I’m still working on that. Until then, any kind of encouragement is greatly appreciated.
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Painting was a hobby for me that was special, I’m afraid that if I make it into “work” it would not become my escape to this world full of stress
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But no worries even if I would not attend art school I intend to use my talent to benefit the world and myself and that is architecture.
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Caring for your mental health while still getting things done is difficult
Keywords: better , depression , inspiration , mental health , pre med , school , self improvement , social media , society , writing
Going forward, I really do hope that I can stand up again and be on my way to once again cultivating the life I want. If you’ve managed to make it this far, thank you for reading. I really, really hope that you can’t relate to this one, but if you do, I want you to know that the human experience- despite how nuanced and varied it may appear- is generally similar. Despite the intricate and small differences in or day to day lives, experiences with mental health, and overall associations and interactions with the world, we all experience feelings of inadequacy, self doubt, and have bad days. Being better isn’t about being perfect, but is about being forgiving to ourselves, allowing us to have the time and space to heal, and celebrating the wins, no matter how small. With all of that being said, I think I’ll end with this: Tomorrow will bring better.
https://sporadicmusingsofasomewhatloststudent.home.blog/2020/12/04/on-being-better -
Tara, the woman with the motto to ‘wake up, rise up and conquer’ sat still the last 2 days and mulled over how overwhelmed she was and didn’t do an ounce of personal development
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Listen guys, life as we know it has changed. Take the pressure off if you’re unsure of what the next step is. Don’t feel pressured to go at the same pace as everyone else. Don’t skip over the basics. Don’t feel unproductive if you sit down and journal to get your thoughts in order. Don’t feel guilty if you don’t message your clients back for a day. There are no rules. YOU are the one that calls the shots on how you manage your time and when you complete a goal. It doesn’t need to get done in ONE DAY.
https://wakeupriseupconquer.com/2020/11/17/where-the-f-am-i-going