Wants

Tag: feelings

  • I want my clients to feel comfortable and special and the way I do this is through hospitality

    I want my clients to feel comfortable and special and the way I do this is through hospitality

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    I want my clients to walk away feeling good about themselves and I want them to see the love of God shining through me.

    https://dailydosewithhannah.wordpress.com/2022/10/17/why-photography
  • Sometimes I feel stuck and I want to blame everyone else for that feeling

    Sometimes I feel stuck and I want to blame everyone else for that feeling

    Keywords: Self-Reflection , personal growth , self-care , Self-Love

    Then I remember that I am the one who has the power to make the choices I need to feel healthier, more acknowledged and validated and to move myself forward.

    https://phdinbeingme.ca/2022/06/21/moving-forward
  • All I wanted to do was jump out of my skin and run

    All I wanted to do was jump out of my skin and run

    Keywords: growth , anxiety , depression , happiness , identity , lifestyle , manifestation , mental health , nervous system regulation , personal diary , purpose , self growth , self reflection , trauma , wellbeing

    I began seeing a beautiful pattern of how every life experience and state of being does what it needs to do in every moment. My states of mind where I felt trapped and insecure – that I genuinely believed would never change – stayed for as long as they needed to and eventually left. If not for those stressful times, I would not be physically, emotionally, or mentally well-equipped the way I am now. I recognize this clearly because every day now, I experience the freedom and peace that I once longed for. People entered and left my life in perfect timing to teach me what I needed to learn about myself. Stress stayed for as long as required for me to know how not to identify myself with my emotions. Unfavorable circumstances affected me for as long as they were supposed to.

    https://jivaways.com/2023/06/01/trying-to-make-sense-of-life-recently-me-too
  • I want a woman who is compatible with me and we both feel that loving feeling when we are around each other

    I want a woman who is compatible with me and we both feel that loving feeling when we are around each other

    Keywords: random thoughts , relationships , dating , friend with benefits , love , marriage , partner , relationship , simp

    Both men and women are naturally inclined to develop emotional attachments after being intimate and having sex. I feel many women do not express their sexual desires openly, because they don’t want to be seen as a whore. Nevertheless, although I feel most people desire sex, most people generally do not desire to engage in casual sex because they value their feelings; as no one wants to feel used or emotionally attached to someone who doesn’t value them.

    https://jasons-journal.com/2022/09/28/a-friend-with-benefits

  • I like having control over many aspects of my life

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    I wanted to be in control of my JC and uni years, and so I worked towards that. Sometimes the rationale for control was flawed – to avoid fear and disappointment. I kick people out of my lives faster than they can leave. Controlling the amount of hurt I might potentially feel.

    https://astandingpigeon.wordpress.com/2022/08/25/control
  • I really just want a platform where I could dump my thoughts, emotions, and feelings

    I really just want a platform where I could dump my thoughts, emotions, and feelings

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    I want to be seen for who I am.

    https://onedayatarhyme.wordpress.com/2022/09/07/welcome

    Image source: https://onedayatarhyme.wordpress.com/2022/09/07/wish-you-were-here

  • All I want is to be wanted, fiercely and undeniably

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    I am always going out of my way to make others happy and feel good and desired, but nobody is ever ever doing the same to me. I’m the only one who cheers me up when I’m down or puts me in a better mood.

    https://heyitskelc.wordpress.com/2022/08/20/want-to-be-wanted
  • I want to talk about the sad – talking about the sad make sad go away

    I want to talk about the sad – talking about the sad make sad go away

    Keywords: reflections , anxiety , blog , blogging , communication , growth , listening , relationships

    How does one talk about their feelings when their feelings make them want to take a lifelong vow of silence? I got one solution – and that is supportive people. All you really need is a good listener. But this is harder said than done. I’m an absolutely garbage listener, my brain interjects with perspectives and comments every two seconds while someone is speaking. It’s a curse, and it’s taken me a long time to quell my natural anxious mind in favour of patient listening. I’m still on that journey, ladies and gentlemen.

    https://shellspotted.wordpress.com/2022/01/22/one-conversation-is-all-it-takes
  • I’ve done the work to become the person I wanted to be

    I’ve done the work to become the person I wanted to be

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    Anyone who knows me personally can tell you I don’t sugar coat things, and I confront issues directly because that’s my nature. When I was younger I came across as harsh and somewhat rude, but during my 20’s I’ve learnt to soften, to empathise and to listen without judgement. I’ve learnt to control my own feelings and allow a safe space for other people to share a different view to mine, and communicate in a healthy way.

    https://mymoodymummy.com/about

  • Just Fooling Around (?)

    Keywords: Social Business , advertising , business , exploitation , marketing , mental health , narcissism , profit , profits , sucker , suckers , there’s a sucker born every minute , victim , victim mentality , victims

    I have some hesitation about today’s topic. It’s complicated. And I feel a little bit outside of my “element” or “comfort zone” (ow whatever), which I feel is more logical, mathematical, rational, stuff like that.

    This is about something completely different — most of all it’s about squishy wishy-washy stuff like feelings.

    But before I start writing a post about my post, let me just dive into it. Perhaps a good starting point is this age-old saying:

    Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

    Many people say stuff like this all the time

    I have even myself coined a term for this feeling. It goes beyond untrustworthy. I call something distrustworthy which is actually worthy of distrust (Google being a prime example that immediately springs to mind 😉 ).

    Now let me get back to the complicated part for a moment.

    Fun & games, happiness and all that jazz are important parts of life. We all want to be able to kid and play around a bit.

    This is where the feelings come in. I think a big part of the Golden Rule is enjoying spending time here together. if someone is clearly not enjoying themselves, then you’re not doing it in a way that conforms to a “best of all possible worlds” scenario.

    Now let me try to nail this thing down so we can consider what it all means.

    A while back, I wrote a post about a saying usually attributed to P.T. Barnum (see “There’s a Sucker Born Every Minute” [ https://socio.business.blog/2023/05/15/theres-a-sucker-born-every-minute ]). If your idea of “just fooling around” is a matter of taking advantage of someone, then that someone could reasonably be expected to feel taken advantage of” (which is, as far as I know, always — or at least almost always — not a nice feeling to experience).

    I think this is then a situation which is in violation of the Golden Rule.

    What makes this difficult is that it’s about feelings. A little kid may very well feel perfectly on top of the world and the kid’s parents may be more than happy to pay manyfold the value of whatever it is the kid gets out of it, but if the kid or the parents feels they’re being duped or suckered or played (or whatever). then what might have been the basis for a trustworthy relationship suddenly transforms into something completely different — namely: the basis for a distrustworthy relationship.