I want this blog to be a resource, not a glorified therapy journal

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But I feel okay telling you that my early adulthood has not been easy. It has often felt characterized less by my successes than a string of traumatic (not a word I use lightly) experiences which I have not always been a willing participant in. This is not to say I’ve never fucked up or made self-sabotaging decisions- I absolutely have. But it has taken me a long time to accept that I have not always deserved the treatment I have received, particularly in a sexual and romantic context. Very rarely, in fact.

https://calamityeve.com/2021/08/14/notes-on-ownership

I can only be the best that I can be, not what others want me to be

Keywords: life , college , education , hey girl hey , i am trying , justagirl , money , struggle bus

I am saying that they expect me and will force me to do what is ideal in their eyes when it comes to career and life decisions. There have been times where I say just stop doing this to yourself and leave, but it is like an abusive relationship. I have stood my ground and told my parents to just straight up stop because I cannot handle the constant debt on my shoulders even though you say it’s not there.

https://justagirlog.wordpress.com/2021/05/28/money-money-money

Our generation is such a unicorn in a sense that we are truly claiming any space we want to occupy and figuring it out when we get there

Keywords: millennial landlord chronicles , landlords , lifestyle , millennial , partners moving in together , real estate

I want to share these experiences to provide representation of black millennials being landlords and highlighting both the benefits and struggles. I’m so big on normalizing everything not being ok because just as I’m going through it so is the next person but just as we are going through it someone else reading my post has gotten through it and would be able to help the both of us! For that reason alone, I share!

https://symbagirlboss.com/2021/04/08/millennial-landlord-chronicles-the-blueprint