When people say “I want to see you happy” without knowing anything about me or my life it offends me

Keywords: life

And there are people who suggest life options to me because they think that makes me happy. And the worst part is when I am blamed for somebody else’s unhappiness. First of all why is everyone assuming I am not happy in life. Just because I made different choices in my life doesn’t mean that I am unhappy. Lets say suppose it seems that way. Then its on me to find a way back. I get when people care and want to check how I am doing. But I feel suffocated when people push me to choose their version of ‘happy life’. Every single person in this world is responsible for one’s own Happiness. So I feel its unfair whenever I get questioned for not thinking about somebody else’s happiness.

https://awhitofwonders.wordpress.com/2022/05/08/happiness-in-control-of

I know who I am, and how I got here, but who do I want to be now / next / moving forward?

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It is a simple question, really. I have built the whole foundation up to this point. I have chosen what makes me who I am. I have eliminated the things I don’t want to be, absorbed and molded who I want to be, so why can’t I just answer the damn question??? And as I sit here, feeling a bit ashamed, a bit scared, a bit nervous, a bit pissed, I realize that my my identity has not been nurtured or cared for in a LONG time. And the ton of bricks hits me.

https://thephotographistlife.com/2021/07/28/i-am-me

Sometimes it’s scary to feel alone in [learning to be] more confident in my self-expression, whether that’s with people I meet or in what I choose to do in life

Keywords: journal

[…] even though it seems like everyone has something to do and accomplish, something to catch up on because they’ve run short on time, it’s okay to be alone, feeling like all you have is time and possibilities. It’s okay to be writing a blog entry that maybe no one will read because I have dreams and goals. It’s okay to be doing anything and feeling alone in the process. Because honestly, everyone has too much on their own plate to be worrying about where you’re going and what you’re doing. I’m not saying no one has an interest in one another, but we all have something we either want to accomplish or need to accomplish that nobody else can do but you.

https://bonitappetit.com/2021/07/02/a-new-direction

I made my choice and I did all of the right things to land myself a public school teaching job after I graduated

Keywords: Dreams , Hope

Sometimes I want to shake that girl. I want to shake her and tell her that she’s got her ENTIRE life ahead of her to “figure it out.” I want her to know that the days of choosing a career and sticking with it until retirement are basically a thing of the past. I want to tell her that it’s ok to try something on for a year or two and then change lanes. I want her to know that somehow, she was going to turn around at 33 and suddenly realize that she’s never ever given herself permission to dream.

https://emilycsurratt.wordpress.com/2021/05/28/born-to-dream

It’s finally time to choose, but I still need to learn how to do it

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As a child it’s quite easy, you go from wanting to be a cook, to willing to be a painter in Paris or a musician. As you grow up, it gets. You need to decide on a destination to take the first step towards it. It’s okay if you mess up once or twice, but you can’t keep changing your mind forever. So, do you want to be a writer, a politician, a marketing manager, an event manager or a college professor? The paths are completely different and time is running by. It is finally time to choose.

https://thehelplesswriter.wordpress.com/2021/05/22/choices

Ideally it would be great to get the chance to go into places you think you’d have an interest for a day or two just to see if you would like it

Keywords: future , life , college , decisions , job search , thoughts

Kind of like work experience in any places you think you’d like because I assume there’s way more people like me who have no idea what they want to do still and this might help us choose something. Is that a bad idea let me know your thoughts? I’ve always been jealous of people who knew what they wanted to do since they were in school it was something I never knew. The only thing that every really came up was I’ve a business head so something in business but that area is SO BROAD there’s so many different parts to it.

https://itsemer.wordpress.com/2021/05/10/whats-next

I have never been able to cope with the fact that I will never get to explore every single one of my interests to their fullest in my life

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On the bright side, though, I have been lucky enough to try out lots of different subjects, disciplines, activities that I truly enjoy; I think it’s far better to have too many options to choose from than to have none at all.

https://overthinkingmywelcome.wordpress.com/2021/05/08/what-to-choose

I want to help those who can not afford medical treatment

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The most important decision that I have found that is hard to make is the choice to continue our education. In this life is all about making decision between what is right or wrong for us. Most people want the easy life but that’s the wrong decision to choose because life will never come easy. My dream career is to be a doctor.

https://janella164838601.wordpress.com/2020/11/23/my-dream-career