Tag: choice

So now I am like this sixteen year old girl confused with what she wants to do in her life – which is very normal for a teenager

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I know, I wanted to do fashion designing but I wasn’t sure about that now. I wasn’t confident about that though I still wanted to do that. Me, being clueless and an idiot told my dad that I wanted do engineering (engineering and medical being the so-called safe options). I made a decision without giving any thought to it. My dad was happy, obviously. Then I go for the coaching classes for engineering entrance exams. Oh dear lord, I have never been so stressed and depressed in my entire life! I regretted my decision of doing this. But now I was scared of telling my dad that I wanted to quit these classes. Very soon I realize that I am definitely NOT made for such science-y stuff. So even if I get into the most prestigious institutes it would be useless as I don’t have those skills. But one thing I knew that I still wanted to study fashion. I was just scared to tell this to my dad.

https://sushhiiblogs.wordpress.com/2022/08/23/my-first-blog

I find it super helpful to bounce idea off of others, but refining my decision making skills is something I want to achieve

Keywords: Bali , Travelling , 2022 , Adventure , anxiety , beach , decisions , female traveller , friends , holiday , indonesia , journey , solo travel , vietnam , young adult

Being certain of the choices that I make isn’t something that comes particularly naturally to me and I tend to go with what others are doing, putting myself second a lot of the time in my life. Travelling solo is something that really pushes you to address this and was once [one] of the reasons I wanted to travel, and the trust in myself has definitely grown much stronger over the last few months.

https://nikkivester.wordpress.com/2022/08/20/making-decisions

I was lucky to have parents who supported me to choose what profession I wanted

Keywords: discover-prompts , rag-tag daily prompt , about me , career choices , choices , finally , life , orchestrate , personal , rdp , work

Some parents might push their kids to the limits and that can cause other problems later on. I was free to do what felt most natural. My parents knew I couldn’t be told what to do so they didn’t force me to. I’m still like that. Apparently, before I learned to walk, they wondered when do I actually start to do that. I crawled a lot and one day I just stood up and started walking. That’s a story my dad told me. Maybe I was just careful or I was afraid to start walking. It could also be because I didn’t want to get rushed. I wanted to do it in my own time and that’s how my life has been. I don’t like rushing things because then the quality won’t be good. In that sense, I’m a perfectionist. In certain other things, I’m not that fussy.

https://tomboyforlife.blog/2020/04/10/finally-orchestrated-what-i-want

When I want something bad enough, I find a way to make it work

Keywords: anxiety , depression , hardtruths , imworthit , lifeishard , sacrifice , smallthings , worthit

I CHOOSE what I want, and I make the sacrifice to make it work. That’s just who I am. One of my mantras in life is a little discomfort in the short run is worth it in the long run. Enjoy the small things in life.

https://lizmarie667664722.wordpress.com/2022/03/21/if-you-wanted-to-you-would

I have very purposeful relationships with my family and friends that have allowed me to grow and become what I am now and what I want to be in the future

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I choose to be my most authentic self in all aspects of my life and I vow to help others grow and live in that same space for their own self. I am unapologetically loving every moment that I live in. At the gym. At life. At home. And in my head.

https://gymjunkiess.wordpress.com/2021/11/21/a-little-more-about-me

It is difficult to choose but there is a time when I need to choose

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I’m the type of girl not into fashion like the other girls. I prefer to wear tshirts and half pants. As i know my personality is being jolly and talkative to everyone even to the stranger. I’ve always been an energetic and out going person. While many people feel awkward to become My friend. I have no problems to making new friends, I like making advice to my Friend because I don’t like to experience them to be alone like what I’d experience. I have no dislikes for anything or anyone.

https://accemptechport.wordpress.com/2021/10/01/my-self-introduction

When people say “I want to see you happy” without knowing anything about me or my life it offends me

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And there are people who suggest life options to me because they think that makes me happy. And the worst part is when I am blamed for somebody else’s unhappiness. First of all why is everyone assuming I am not happy in life. Just because I made different choices in my life doesn’t mean that I am unhappy. Lets say suppose it seems that way. Then its on me to find a way back. I get when people care and want to check how I am doing. But I feel suffocated when people push me to choose their version of ‘happy life’. Every single person in this world is responsible for one’s own Happiness. So I feel its unfair whenever I get questioned for not thinking about somebody else’s happiness.

https://awhitofwonders.wordpress.com/2022/05/08/happiness-in-control-of

I know who I am, and how I got here, but who do I want to be now / next / moving forward?

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It is a simple question, really. I have built the whole foundation up to this point. I have chosen what makes me who I am. I have eliminated the things I don’t want to be, absorbed and molded who I want to be, so why can’t I just answer the damn question??? And as I sit here, feeling a bit ashamed, a bit scared, a bit nervous, a bit pissed, I realize that my my identity has not been nurtured or cared for in a LONG time. And the ton of bricks hits me.

https://thephotographistlife.com/2021/07/28/i-am-me

I made my choice and I did all of the right things to land myself a public school teaching job after I graduated

Keywords: Dreams , Hope

Sometimes I want to shake that girl. I want to shake her and tell her that she’s got her ENTIRE life ahead of her to “figure it out.” I want her to know that the days of choosing a career and sticking with it until retirement are basically a thing of the past. I want to tell her that it’s ok to try something on for a year or two and then change lanes. I want her to know that somehow, she was going to turn around at 33 and suddenly realize that she’s never ever given herself permission to dream.

https://emilycsurratt.wordpress.com/2021/05/28/born-to-dream