Tag: patience

I want to talk about the sad – talking about the sad make sad go away

Keywords: reflections , anxiety , blog , blogging , communication , growth , listening , relationships

How does one talk about their feelings when their feelings make them want to take a lifelong vow of silence? I got one solution – and that is supportive people. All you really need is a good listener. But this is harder said than done. I’m an absolutely garbage listener, my brain interjects with perspectives and comments every two seconds while someone is speaking. It’s a curse, and it’s taken me a long time to quell my natural anxious mind in favour of patient listening. I’m still on that journey, ladies and gentlemen.

https://shellspotted.wordpress.com/2022/01/22/one-conversation-is-all-it-takes

I want to be successful and I do not know which path to really take

Keywords: Life , Uncertainty In The 20s

I have failed yet I am so young to many people. Someone said remove the age limit in your dreams and goals and get them done no matter how long it takes. This was a good thing to say but that doesn’t mean that the age won’t cross my mind and I will feel like a failure. The pressure sometimes comes from seeing younger people than me do so much and succeed yet I’m still here.

https://aimperfectperfections.wordpress.com/2021/08/31/in-my-uncertainty

I would cry looking at the calendar and seeing there were so many days left

Keywords: motherhood

Mentally i think i was losing it. 1. The stress of not being able to take care of my son the way I want to because I am the size of Texas and had the energy level of a pea. 2. Not being able to keep up with my sons growing energy levels 3. Being closed off from most of society and being stuck at home due to the pandemic 4. Pregnancy hormones. All of this makes a disgusting combination of one hell of a hot mess which was me. except i wasn’t even hot.

https://masalachaitime.home.blog/2021/07/19/my-second-pregnancy

I want to talk about how the wait is an illusion

Keywords: impatience , waiting

Sometimes we (us Christians) deem waiting as being proof of being a better Christian and we (us again) condemn the impatient – “you just have to wait”, we say from our super high horses as if waiting for that thing they want is all there is to life. And yet, I think there’s an art to doing both. If the impatient didn’t exist, the waiters would do nothing. And if the waiters didn’t exist, the impatient would work with no sense of direction. Waiting allows for God to speak and direct but work allows us to walk out what we say we believe in. Waiting doesn’t have to be measured in weeks or years. It’s better to be discerning and obedient.

https://ashtons.blog/2021/07/15/i-cant-wait-and-you-shouldnt

Girl needs to make money and hit targets

Keywords: relationship , ghosted , mind

Dudes will ghost you and you’ll never hear from them again . What is wrong with this gender. Let’s reason , you chase a girl to get them ghost her ? Some sort of witchcraft ? I for one know I don’t deserve to be ghosted , I’m a little quiet during the first days of dating it takes a while for me to be comfortable around new people. It might take months and thats where the problem is . We have a breed of impatient guys not looking for anything in particular and jumping from one place to another like hegoats .

https://thejedy.wordpress.com/2021/05/10/i-have-been-ghosted-and-im-not-ok-with-it