Tag: judgement

I want to be healthy and strong and not give even the smallest of fucks about what people think

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I always say I don’t care what people think of me so why am I so concerned with my weight and how I look. But I read something today about the shame that women feel about their bodies, despite the absolute fucking slog they go through every day of their lives. It made me think – I’m probably right when I say I don’t really care what other people think but maybe I care what I think and maybe that is shame. Do I feel ashamed because I’m “fatter” than most people around me? Do I feel ashamed because my stomach that was home to two beautiful babies for 9 months (absolutely fucking huge babies might I add) isn’t flat? I mean it isn’t even round, I don’t know what shape it is! Do I feel ashamed that I weigh more than my partner? Do I feel ashamed when I eat something “bad”?

https://hormoaningmum.wordpress.com/2023/07/05/shame-on-me

I want to associate with people that live with purpose — that have passions and pursuits

Keywords: consecutive running , self development

What do you do for work? is one of the most common questions asked when meeting someone for the first time – whether that be at a networking event, a first date, or at a party. We then proceed to judge someone and categorize them based on our perceptions or preconceived notions of said career. I personally find this question a challenge to navigate. I do many things for work – some paid, some not paid – but one commonality across all of them is that I am none of them.

https://emilyrudow.com/blog/who-you-are-is-not-what-you-do

I can’t tell how I am viewed or regarded as a person — Only how I want to be regarded

Keywords: existentialism , intp , personality , relationships , self-image

How I want to be as a person, even if it’s not always possible for me to reach those goals in one sitting or by any preconceived logic. It takes time and endurance and patience – with the small possibility of it never happening roaming in the back of my mind.

https://femaleintpconfessions.wordpress.com/2022/01/08/to-become-a-fleshed-out-person

Someone said something because they wanted to

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We’re all humans and we react in different ways so the least we can do is let go of what was said and accept who we are for what we are. To solve the judging problem, community discussions are needed but the first step and the most difficult one is acceptance — it’s accepting the fact that there is a fear. Only if you accept the fear, can you conquer this fear.

https://ahighschoolersopinion.wordpress.com/2021/12/18/why-do-people-judge-you-all-the-time

When I have the choice of a hundred other words with which I could express myself, why would I want to use words that sound bombastic but mean anything but what I am trying to express??

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The Oxford English dictionary is an amazing compilation of words, words and more words! New words have been accepted and made their debut into this ‘word bible’ of a book ever so often ! A word-lovers delight, a writers euphoria, a teachers fallback, it is a magical , mystical mumbo-jumbo of utterances made up of nouns, pronouns, verbs, adjectives, adverbs, prepositions, conjunctions and interjections !!

https://mallikasubash.wordpress.com/2021/12/01/oops

I want to share more of my personal hobbies that include makeup artistry and photography

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Before, I have felt too afraid to be judged but now I am coming to a point that I will embrace my flaws and allow room for judgement so that I may improve in my work. All in all, I truly believe the strongest asset in having a positive digital footprint and professional personal brand is actually being a genuinely good person in real life. Right now, I’m far from being well known in the digital world but my family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances, etc. all know the kind of person I truly am. I’ve always been known to be a down-to-earth, genuine, and kind person to every person I surround myself with which has been a strong asset for me in the digital world.

https://addiethinks992881736.wordpress.com/2021/08/26/my-digital-footprint-and-professional-personal-brand

She could do it with less effort and I kinda of wondered and envied her at that part of her life

Keywords: entertainment

I said why do you talk so much she replied and asked me, why am I so quiet everytime. So I said it was my nature so then I realized what it meant all along. And I felt terrible for my misjudging character. Hopefully wanting me to understand her more. so I learned how to live with others no matter how different you are.

https://lajuefejuku.data.blog/2021/08/15/life-with-my-loud-neighbour