Tag: self esteem

I desire to be appreciated, rather than merely tolerated

Keywords: acknowledgment , appreciation , friendships , personal growth , reflection , self acceptance , self esteem , Taylor swift , transformation , Vulnerability

I want to be someone who loves unconditionally. But, I realized I do have a condition that keeps me from loving people that way: and it’s my desire to be appreciated, rather than merely tolerated.

https://andreastatler.com/2022/02/28/toleration-vs-appreciation

I want to associate with people that live with purpose — that have passions and pursuits

Keywords: consecutive running , self development

What do you do for work? is one of the most common questions asked when meeting someone for the first time – whether that be at a networking event, a first date, or at a party. We then proceed to judge someone and categorize them based on our perceptions or preconceived notions of said career. I personally find this question a challenge to navigate. I do many things for work – some paid, some not paid – but one commonality across all of them is that I am none of them.

https://emilyrudow.com/blog/who-you-are-is-not-what-you-do

I am pretty stoked with what I came up with and proud

Keywords: boundaries , courage , growth , learning lessons , lifelessons , strength

I realize I wasn’t giving myself much credit at the little things I have started to implement over the years. I will be honest, I still struggle a lot with this list, especially at work, but having it down on paper (or computer), tells my mind and body that I am doing pretty well for myself. I am not as lost as I think I might be and with this start, I am only going to grow and feel more confident in my decisions and my skin and that is my ultimate goal.

https://icantodayblogwordpresscom.wordpress.com/2022/01/09/boundaries-how-they-appear

The biggest mental issue is my need for external validation

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I need this external validation. I need people. I want people to invite me to hang out with them. But that doesn’t happy. I’m usually the guy who has to plan everything in my friend group. But they all meet up with each other all the time. But I can’t blame them. Almost all of my friends are girls and it’s wrong for me to be always there for girl time. And honestly, I’m kind of sick hearing about purses, guys, and periods.

https://butchalis.wordpress.com/2021/06/03/my-first-post-2

I want to show people that I can do that

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I don’t know why they laugh at the course I take, they think I can’t, that I can’t finish. But those are not what I have in mind, I just ignore them so that they do not tell me that I will prove to them that I can, that they can not underestimate me. I don’t know why they are like that to me, I am not doing anything wrong to them because I do not go out of the house because I do not want them to say anything to me again.

https://montejudiline.wordpress.com/2021/01/07/my-autobiography