I can’t tell how I am viewed or regarded as a person — Only how I want to be regarded

Keywords: existentialism , intp , personality , relationships , self-image

How I want to be as a person, even if it’s not always possible for me to reach those goals in one sitting or by any preconceived logic. It takes time and endurance and patience – with the small possibility of it never happening roaming in the back of my mind.

https://femaleintpconfessions.wordpress.com/2022/01/08/to-become-a-fleshed-out-person

The more I understand myself, my innate personality (and the traits and tendencies that go along with it), the more open and accepting I am about the people around me

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I consider myself a very self-aware person, and I constantly strive to be better. I also find that with this knowledge, I’m more cognizant of my comfort zone and can more easily recognize when I should step outside of it. It helps me to understand other people’s motivations and points of view, to the point where, even if someone is being really nasty to me, or is frustratingly rigid, for example, I can’t help but empathize with where they’re coming from.

https://angeinthecity.com/2016/01/13/it-aint-easy-being-orange

She could do it with less effort and I kinda of wondered and envied her at that part of her life

Keywords: entertainment

I said why do you talk so much she replied and asked me, why am I so quiet everytime. So I said it was my nature so then I realized what it meant all along. And I felt terrible for my misjudging character. Hopefully wanting me to understand her more. so I learned how to live with others no matter how different you are.

https://lajuefejuku.data.blog/2021/08/15/life-with-my-loud-neighbour

I want to think critically, learn from many, make foolish decisions and have pivotal moments

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I am searching for a clearer understanding of who, exactly, I am as an individual. I know who my parents want me to be. I know how my friends, across varying groups, interchangeably see me. I know how my peers perceive me from what I post on social media. My personality feels like a multi-faceted Venn-diagram: all of the different categories have nuggets of accuracy that contribute to who I am as a whole, but the overlapping center where all of the circles connect is a mystery.

https://mymeliora.wordpress.com/2021/05/13/the-cliche-introduction

I want to talk more gently to myself in case teenage Anne is listening in

Keywords: purpose

The Anne of today, right this very minute, is the caretaker for all the versions of me — past and future. I carry each one of them with me, though I’m not always aware of them. The gift I can give myself each and every day is true compassion and deep love for past, present and future Anne.

https://annebrock.com/2021/05/14/i-carry-them-all-with-me